Jennifer Lopez may be in a good place now with her boytoy boyfriend, Casper Smart but thing weren’t always so bright after she separated from Marc Anthony in 2011.”It was hard. When Marc and I decided to separate, I thought, “I’m not going to let this turn me into someone unhopeful who doesn’t believe [in love] anymore. I didn’t want to just survive it. I wanted to grow from it. And I did learn a lot. Most importantly, to love myself first.”
“As women, I don’t think we do that enough. We always love somebody else more than ourselves. I did that for a long time and I couldn’t understand why things weren’t working. Then I realised that I wasn’t valuing myself in the way that I deserved. You accept things that are less than what you want, and then you wonder why you find yourself in these situations. You think, “I wouldn’t treat anyone in this way so why am I being treated like this? Why can’t I find somebody who treats me in the way that I treat them?'”
Is she alluding to some possible infidelity…?
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